Do you want to know if that cute girl in the office is in love with you, or was that just a casual smile ?? Understanding what girls are thinking is not an easy job. That I assure you. But it’s not an impossible one either. So how can you know if she likes you? Afterall women in love are not exactly easy to understand for men. You need to learn a lot of social calibration in order to master womanize.
So I have tried to be as thorough as possible so that I can give the best possible answer to the questions which have been troubling guys since the beginning of time. Now without further beating around the bush here are the top 21 signs she is interested in you:
She stares at you when you’re not looking. And gets embarrassed when you catch her staring at you. She will avert her eyes at first, but as soon as you turn away, she will look at you. This should happen a lot. Not just once or twice. Do note the fact that its a slightly seductive gaze. It’s easy to misunderstand this signal so beware. This is a sign that she likes you. Women in love tend to look at their partner with affection every chance they get.
She tries to touch you a lot frequently, even during situations where there is no need to. She will hold your hands and try to touch you longer than necessary. She will also hug you a lot. Hugs will last for longer. She wants to hold and cuddle you in her mind after all. If you touch her, she might get embarrassed, but she will come even closer to you. This is a visible sign that she is interested in you and wants to be more than friends.
3)You are so funny
She will laugh at every little joke you make. Even if the joke was lame. She will always be extra supportive of everything you say and defend you if anyone says something negative about you. She will even laugh at jokes which are plain stupid and which make your friends cringe. She will also act childishly in front of you. She might act like a mature person. But she will show you her childish funny side. The amount of childishness will vary depending on the personality of the girl. So it’s a relative measure. Women in love are childish trust me on that one.
She doesn’t like other women flirting and touching you. She will get irritated and won’t explain why she is like that. Women tend to be possessive of things they love. It’s a sign that she likes you. So, notice for signs when she gets mad because you talked or flirted with other women. She might even hit or punch you just because you flirted with other women. She likely won’t tell the reason for that you though. But you know, don’t you?
5)Extra love baby
She is always extra helpful to you and only you. She will make your food and try to take care of you. She will feel protective of you and do things that go beyond the level of friendship. She will get extra comfortable at your house as well. Sleep in your bed and act like she’s part of your family. All signs of interest which are quite hard to miss honestly.You can take that as a good sign of attraction.
She gives obvious flirtations indicating that she would like a relationship with you. Comments like “you would make an awesome husband”, or “what would it take for me to seduce you”. Explicitly stated flirts which are bold are indications that she likes you. Do note that I just said explicitly. Do not mistake them for general flirting. Some Girls just like to flirt with no intent just for attention.
Also, she will text you every chance she gets. Like every day, you will get a good morning, goodnight message. This should happen for more than a week though to be sure. Girl’s behavior is a better indicator than their words. They prefer expressing their emotions with their behavior rather than words. This is probably why we men mess up so much. We listen to what they say rather than their actions. We are hopeless when it comes to reading a women’s body language. Especially when it comes to women in love.
She initiates s*xual topics for chats. She might ask you intimate details about what you like in bed, your fantasies. And she might even ask you flirty questions like what are you wearing etc. She might also try to convince you to have phone s*x. These are obvious signs that she is interested in you and depending upon the age, and the actions will vary. Make sure to take that into account.
If she is trying to arouse than it means she is interested. Make sure you are turning her on as well…!!
8)A Girls Valentines Gift
Okay, this one is pretty straightforward. She gives you chocolates on valentine’s day. Especially handmade chocolates are a clear indication that she is interested in you. Note: depending on where you live the tradition might differ a bit. But handmade chocolates are a sign that she likes you.
9)Girls Cupid Friends
Her close friends tell you that she is available and tease you suggesting that you guys should hook up. They will try to be cupids and set you up with her. Call you to meet them and leave you alone with her etc. If you see something like this happening more than once you can be sure she likes you. Her close friends might even tell you that she is in love with you. If that happens then you know what to do right?
She lets you become too intimate with her, such as sleeping in her lap, sleeping in the same bed, sleeping while cuddling you, etc. You can be sure she sees you as more than a friend. She might even kiss you. And get quite physical if you know what I mean.
What she says and what she does might not be the same. Trust her actions over her words.
She tries to be alone with you. And only with you. She will make plans and situations when it is only you two no one else. She will take you away from the group to be alone with you. She will even ditch her friends to be with you. You are her priority. She will also make special surprises just for you. Or make similar gestures showing affection. Notice these signs. She likes you, lucky guy.
12) I’m the first girl
She wants to be your first in everything and the first one to congratulate you, wish you on your birthday, the first one to wish you in the morning, etc. she gets upset if she is second. Being overly concerned about everything you say is a sign of her being interested in you. If you have such signs you know you are the lucky guy.
13)Her Unique Gifts
She buys you expensive gifts or makes special handcrafted gifts just for you. Gifts which take a lot of effort to make are made only for special people. Women don’t put that much dedication for someone they don’t like. A unique difficult to make a gift requires hard work and commitment; she will only do this for someone she truly loves. So, you’re fortunate if you get one.
She hates it when you suggest jokes that she should date a guy. Or get married to someone else. She only wants to be yours. If you do something to show that you don’t want her to be with you. She will get annoyed. The context of the situation does matter, though, so proceed carefully.
But you might as well assume the same and act like it.
15)A Girl’s Perfect memory
She remembers every little detail you tell her. Even things that you said when you were a kid. Women in love tend not to forget things said by the person they love. So, she will remember every little thing you did to the perfect detail. She notices everything about your clothes and hairstyle, even your shoes. Even the slightest change is not missed. This is also a sign of interest.
16) Subconscious Copy me
She starts mimicking your words and behavior. For, eg the words and slangs you use will be copied by her. She will use all your favorite dialogues. She will also use the same things you do. The same brand books, the same food, etc. She will subconsciously mimic your body language as well.
This is because people tend to mimic the person they are interested in subconsciously. They might not even be aware that they are doing it. Science.
17)I want to know everything about you
She wants to know everything there is to know about you. Starting from your birthday to your clothes size and stuff you generally haven’t told her. Women in love will spend a lot of time gathering information about the one they love. They might even tell one of their friends to look up information and run a free background check on you. It’s a sign she likes you. Girls tend to spend a lot of time thinking about the person they love.
Her profile pics and wallpapers are pictures of you and her together. In every situation, she will try to keep pics that have you and her only. It’s her way of being with you together. You might think it’s childish, but a lot of women do that. It’s their way of showing possession. It says he’s mine don’t bother looking at him(subconscious message to other women)
19)A Girls Never-ending calls
She never cuts the call. She will ask any question or use any idea so that you would keep talking to her on the call. She will call you daily, and your talks will last for quite long. Hours at a time, even. She will use any and every topic to keep the conversation going. You can be sure she wants to be more than friends. This has to happen a number of times not just once. She might even start drunk dialing you. And confessing to you while drunk. Than you can sure she likes you.
20) A Women’s Body language
Although it’s difficult to tell for us boys, women tend to show more via their body language rather than words. And since boys are clueless about body language, it’s challenging for boys to notice these things. There are many books and youtube courses that show how to read body language.
Things like playing with their hair. Showing her neck, showing her cleavage are seduction techniques many girls use. And showing off her assets in front of you is a sign of interest.
21)A Girls Promises
She will make embarrassing promises like if we don’t find our partners, then we will get married to each other at age 30, etc. It’s a sign she wants to be more than a friend, and she wants you to take the initiative. Though misleading it might indicate what she wants. Women are emotional beings when it comes to love. They depend on how they feel compared to boys who are more logical in making decisions related to relationships.
Notice her behavior rather than words. Her behavior is a better indicator that she likes you or not.
Last moment tips:
- Skinship and touch may vary depending on the reason. French are more open to touching and kissing, and it is a form of greeting. Not necessarily a sign that she likes you.
- Similarly, in countries like India, kissing is a sign of romance and not greeting. Make sure to take regional differences into account.
If she does not like you then you can try the following two guides to make her fall in love with you:
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